[Member TheMâŚ] Posted May 13, 2021 Share Posted May 13, 2021 (edited) This topic keeps coming up, and it seems so many, too many, users have experienced some type of stalking episode on Smule. For the record, I am not doubting anyone but users need to differentiate between stalking and being a fan. If someone is simply checking out your account on occasion it may be because they genuinely admire your art/singing. I want to share something I saw in a Live Jam awhile back. A man and woman were on the mic chatting. I was in the audience. Another woman enters, and the man greets her with a big nice hello. She replies hello back to him in the comments. She exits, and I was still in the audience, and the man told the woman on the mic, âShe only enters the jams to stalk me.â How two-faced can one be. Had she been a stalker shouldnât he have had her blocked and whatâs with the nice greeting to her? I felt he was pretending to be some kind of ladies man to impress the guests.  I left the live jam disgusted at the deceit and the slander in the Jam. Not only do these types hurt the users they slander behind their backs, they hurt the credibility of users who have actually been stalked, and these actions hurt the app.  Have I ever watched users I donât follow? Yes, and I donât consider it stalking. If so, the APEX groups could have me banned. đ I call it admiration. I truly love listening to that super talented choir of users. Just throwing the specific group out here as an example.  Stalking is criminal! If a user sings with you, starts messaging you for your real identity, or where you live, then you may have a stalker on your hands. If they find your location and contact you without your consent, you do have a stalker on your hand, and you need to seek help ASAP. The point of my post is users need to learn the definition of stalking. I had to experience it, and itâs not anything I would want anyone to experience. Stay safe and always remember you owe no one anything on this app or any social media app for that matter.    Edited May 13, 2021 by TheMajesticM Typo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[Member DuetâŚ] Posted May 16, 2021 Share Posted May 16, 2021 (edited) I have some thoughts on this. Iâm going to come back to it. Ok, here goes. Itâs possible that this woman gives him a hard time about other female singing partners. Occasionally, men complain about my obvious favoritism of a particular male singing partner, and Iâve also had men tell me that women complained about me. So it could just be that his frustration is bubbling over. But I agree with your assessment, that it seems he is trying to impress other women with his attitude. It is rude of him to talk about her like that after she left the room. Sometimes I wonder if there is a lot of gossiping going on between people who are in groups or otherwise chat with each other through messages or outside the app. But I try to avoid those things as much as possible, so I donât know. I donât want to think about what people might say about me. Sorry if Iâve gotten a little off topic. I understand why the term âstalkingâ is offensive, as I have a friend who is really being stalked by a man from Smule. It may be a case of a term being tossed around casually without really considering the seriousness it implies. I know Iâve used the word âstalkingâ to describe someone checking out my page. Iâve also used the words âcreeping on my pageâ which may be a more appropriate choice of words. But I assume most people are like me, and donât intend to downplay the seriousness of stalking. I really believe itâs just poorly chosen term that is commonly used within the Smule community. Edited May 16, 2021 by DuetWithAlli Finishing my thought 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[Member TheMâŚ] Posted May 17, 2021 Author Share Posted May 17, 2021 On 5/15/2021 at 9:05 PM, DuetWithAlli said: It may be a case of a term being tossed around casually without really considering the seriousness it implies. I know Iâve used the word âstalkingâ to describe someone checking out my page. Iâve also used the words âcreeping on my pageâ which may be a more appropriate choice of words. But I assume most people are like me, and donât intend to downplay the seriousness of stalking. I really believe itâs just poorly chosen term that is commonly used within the Smule community. @DuetWithAlliwell put statement! Exactly the point I was trying to make. The word stalking should never be used casually.  Itâs a serious crime and can lead to serious consequences.  I donât care too much about âcreeping,â again as long as users donât try to find where my family and I live without consent. Iâd say the majority of users are guilty of creeping if the truth be known. As for talk behind the scenes, yes, I am positive it happens in the chat groups. I donât participate in that type of behavior, either, reason I decline chat group requests. Theyâre trouble, in my opinion.         1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[Member DuetâŚ] Posted May 18, 2021 Share Posted May 18, 2021 Oh yes, I am totally guilty of creeping on accounts. Like if I havenât seen someone in awhile and Iâm missing that person. But if I listen to anything  while Iâm on someoneâs page, I will love it to show that I was there. And I agree 100% about the groups. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[Member TheMâŚ] Posted May 18, 2021 Author Share Posted May 18, 2021 I wish Smule had the feature to show who visits or explores our profile, same as this blog. I know one of their competitors has the feature for VIPs. That would be neat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[Member DuetâŚ] Posted May 20, 2021 Share Posted May 20, 2021 (edited) That might bring about more complaints of âstalkingâ. On the other hand, maybe people are less likely to creep on an account if they know others can see what theyâre doing ... Personally, Iâm not sure I want to know whoâs looking at my profile. It might be disappointing to see whoâs actually watching my videos versus who I like to imagine is watching my videos hehe ... Edited May 20, 2021 by DuetWithAlli 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[Member TheMâŚ] Posted May 21, 2021 Author Share Posted May 21, 2021 Definitely pros and cons to that feature. Agree! đ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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