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TheMajesticM
1 hour ago, DuetWithAlli said:

Wow, this has to come back up again ... I don’t know if he reads the replies anymore, but they still come to my email. It was awkward because he was talking about me.

I was simply replying to the original general post. I didn’t notice an addressee. These issues are still occurring for many so it’s still a current topic and should be kept highlighted. Users, sadly mainly adults, need to learn how to behave on an app. So many disrespectful users get by with their ill manners, but maybe they were not taught any better—still no excuse. Most don’t care so you either learn to tolerate it on the app or make a new account, which if Smule fixes the block feature can make it peaceful for all, maybe. 
 

 But please be at peace my comments were not in any way directed towards you.

Happy Singing!  
 


 

 

 

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DuetWithAlli
3 hours ago, TheMajesticM said:

I was simply replying to the original general post. I didn’t notice an addressee. These issues are still occurring for many so it’s still a current topic and should be kept highlighted. Users, sadly mainly adults, need to learn how to behave on an app. So many disrespectful users get by with their ill manners, but maybe they were not taught any better—still no excuse. Most don’t care so you either learn to tolerate it on the app or make a new account, which if Smule fixes the block feature can make it peaceful for all, maybe. 
 

 But please be at peace my comments were not in any way directed towards you.

Happy Singing!  
 


 

 

3 hours ago, TheMajesticM said:

 


It still came to my email, maybe because you quoted me. I’m sorry for taking offense to your post. This is still a sore subject for me because I always thought that I was being nice, and I was sad to find out that I was being ... unintentionally un-nice.

I will bow out now because I don’t want to wear out my welcome here like I did on Smule. This is what I do, I try to make everything into a joke when I’m the only one who thinks I’m funny. Don’t worry, I understand how I’m part of the problem. Happy singing to you too.

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1 hour ago, DuetWithAlli said:

I will bow out now because I don’t want to wear out my welcome here like I did on Smule. This is what I do, I try to make everything into a joke when I’m the only one who thinks I’m funny. Don’t worry, I understand how I’m part of the problem. Happy singing to you too.

 


I don’t see that you’re part of the problem at all. You’re a contributor who gives good feedback on this site. 

Same as you about the jokes. Something I think is hilarious someone else gets offended, so I can relate there. I think that’s common with pretty much everyone online. Online communication is sometimes hard to interpret, even when you use a ton of smiley emojis! 😀

The last few days I have been at home so naturally I’ve read almost the whole blog. Sorry this was a hard topic for you, and I am sure you’re not alone.
 

 

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yaunti
On 4/26/2021 at 8:22 AM, TheMajesticM said:

@yauntiYou seem really kind. I cannot believe someone would block you over joining them. Some bitch if they don’t get followers or joiners, and now we have  some bitching if they get them. Goodness gracious at the madness!  You can’t please some of these ... people. I’ve block users for justifiable reasons, and I don’t have to tell them why. They know what they’ve done.

I have created new accounts over another user, although it was useless at that time. You can’t stay hidden on this app but it may be different since Smule has increased security. To get to my point, from reading your comments, I doubt you are the reason anyone created another account. It sounds as if you need to become a little pickier with who you interact with on the app. You’re as good as anyone else on this app — remember that! And they’re decent people on the app. I sing with them now. 😊

 

 

Thank you, for your kind words and advice. 

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DuetWithAlli
On 4/28/2021 at 8:08 PM, TheMajesticM said:


I don’t see that you’re part of the problem at all. You’re a contributor who gives good feedback on this site. 

Same as you about the jokes. Something I think is hilarious someone else gets offended, so I can relate there. I think that’s common with pretty much everyone online. Online communication is sometimes hard to interpret, even when you use a ton of smiley emojis! 😀

The last few days I have been at home so naturally I’ve read almost the whole blog. Sorry this was a hard topic for you, and I am sure you’re not alone.
 

 

You’re very nice, thank you. Honestly, I understand being upset if someone doesn’t comment on joins. It makes me sad, too. I just assume the worst and stop joining. But it upsets me more if a person always has nice comments for me, yet never joins my songs. I wonder if this person is feeding everyone BS compliments just to get a lot of joins. It’s a fine line. If I have to come up on the side of being aloof and unkind, rather than worry about coming across as a fake, I guess I have to accept that some people are going to be upset with me. 
 

Again, thank you for your understanding and kindness.

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@DuetWithAlli

You’re welcome
 

I get a lot of nice comments, and some I think are sincere, and there are those I take with a grain of salt because I know I didn’t sound that good. If they’re not sincere, at least they’re not rude, so I appreciate that. 
 

If you enjoy the app, and you haven’t had any major problems, I hope you continue. I firmly believe singing is good for the soul.

❤️

 

 

 

 

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